Jacob and Esau were twins but also polar opposites. Esau, the elder son, was to receive his father’s birthright and blessing. He was the outdoorsman while Jacob was a quiet man who loved to stay home. Jacob’s name, which described his grasping of his brother’s foot at birth (Gen. 25:26), came to mean “one who deceives.”
Deception, personality differences, and parental favoritism all played a role in the disunity of this early family. Jacob, with the help of his mother Rebekah, tricked Isaac for his brother’s birthright and blessing. Once the deception had run its course, Jacob was forced to flee from his brother’s wrath.
Jacob was ferreted off to Paddan-Aram to find a wife from among the Israelites. He worked for his uncle Laban for many years and God provided for him abundantly. After several years, Jacob determined that it was time to return home and be reconciled with his brother. Consistent with his character he devised several plans to save himself and his family.
To Jacob’s surprise, God had already prepared the heart of Esau, who received his brother with great joy. Nonetheless, Jacob insisted that Esau receive the gift he had prepared for him. Why was he so generous? Just listen! “God has been gracious to me and I have everything I need” (Gen. 35:11).
Prayer: Father, thank you that you are the author of every good gift. Teach me to live more generously. Amen